Girl's vulnerability

As we all know, girls are more sensitive and more vulnerable compared to boys, not just physically but also when it comes to the emotional aspect of life. But today I would like to discuss some of those vulnerability which can either be helpful to girls themselves or for boys who are courting his girl.

Things I would like to discuss with you are those traits which I observed through watching and interviewing some of my classmates and friends. These traits will revolve around the world of early relationships which are very evident to high school and college students.

First among these traits would be the tendency to be flattered to words of appreciation and pick-up lines being spoken to them. Most of girls fell for this actions done by boys who are courting them, and reaches its peak when that particular boy is their crush. And usually these leads to accepting that particular suitor. Second thing would be the tendency to be infatuated to the persons whom they are always with, girls develop this sense of attraction due to their feeling of being wanted and secured. They might also think that this person is always with them because they like them. Girls are very prone to putting colors into the most simple things that are done for them. Another thing is the act of sweetness to their partner that they give almost all of their affection towards their boyfriend to the point of having none for themselves. I find this trait very disturbing because this is the one that leads to many unwanted circumstances, sufferings and hurts after that particular couple will break up. This also results the feeling on being inferior and hatred towards all of guys out there. This have its advantage too but is only existing if the affection towards your male partner would be True love which is most like not. And the last thing that I would cite is the tendency to choose her boyfriends rather than her friends or even her family. Sounds stupid right? But this is the reality that every girl must accept and realize. As I mentioned above, girls are really sensitive and very emotional, this will drive girls to select their boyfriends over their family and friends especially when that particular guy would reinforce his girl to select him. Girls do have this trait to be close minded to the opinions of her family and friends. The saying "love is blind" is very applicable in this particular scenario. To all girls out there, it is a good chance to know your weaknesses and tendencies so that you can avoid some or make it your strengths. But at the end of the day, we are what we are and we must accept these for they build the foundation of our personality and self.

Note: This are just observations of mine put into text and not a generalization of all females.